Navigating Divorce with Special Needs Children: Expert Advice from A Divorce Coach Who’s Lived It.
Divorce can feel like an earthquake, shaking the foundations of your family and leaving you feeling lost and uncertain. And when you have a child with autism or other special needs, the aftershocks can be even more intense. But you don't have to navigate this alone.
Mary Ann Hughes, a devoted mother of two sons on the autism spectrum, knows the challenges firsthand. She faced her own unexpected divorce after 21 years of marriage and emerged stronger, with valuable lessons to share. In this blog post, we'll explore Mary Ann's insights and practical advice from her appearance on the Autism Family Resource Podcast, offering you a roadmap to navigate this difficult terrain and protect your child's well-being.
"I Felt Like I Was Drowning": A Mother's Perspective
Mary Ann doesn't sugarcoat the challenges. "When I was going through my divorce," she shares, "I felt like I was drowning. There was so much to think about, so many emotions, and the added layer of my children's special needs made it even more overwhelming."
But she also found strength in her determination to protect her sons. "I knew I had to put their needs first," she explains. "That meant making sure they understood what was happening, that they felt safe and loved, and that their future was secure."
Sharing the News: Honesty and Compassion
One of the first hurdles is telling your child about the divorce. "It's crucial to approach this with honesty and compassion," Mary Ann advises. "Use clear, simple language, and consider creating a social story to help your child process the information."
Protecting Your Child's Future: Legal and Financial Considerations
Divorce proceedings can be a minefield, especially when it comes to finances and ensuring your child's access to essential resources. "It's vital to find a family law attorney who understands the unique needs of special needs families," Mary Ann emphasizes. "They can help you navigate issues like child support, government benefits, and estate planning."
Co-Parenting: Building a Bridge After the Quake
Divorce doesn't have to mean the end of your family. "It's the beginning of a new chapter," Mary Ann reminds us. "And while it may be challenging, it's possible to build a positive co-parenting relationship that puts your child's needs at the center."
Finding Hope in the Rubble
Divorce can leave you feeling like your world has crumbled. But Mary Ann offers a message of hope. "It's a difficult journey," she acknowledges, "but you will get through it. Focus on building a new life for yourself and your child, one filled with love, support, and possibilities."
Connect with Mary Ann and Find Your Strength
If you're facing divorce and feeling overwhelmed, Mary Ann Hughes can be your guide. Visit her website at SpecialFamilyTransitions.com to learn more and schedule a free consultation. And remember, you're not alone. The Autism Family Resource Podcast is here to support you every step of the way. Subscribe now for more empowering stories and resources to help you and your family thrive. Listen to the full episode on the Autism Family Resource Podcast.
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